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Featured Articles from Previous Newsletters

Favouritism  The impact of television on children's development 
Self esteem  Separation anxiety 
Bullying  Kids and Disaster 
Making an au pair work  Sexual education for children 
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder  Dyslexia 
Reflecting on 2011  Childhood Anxiety   
Teaching kids to be 'I can' kids                  Goal setting 


Other articles of interest

Child safety 

Child sexual abuse 

 

A Child's 10 Commandments to Parents and Caregivers

courtesy of Hetty Johnson (Peter Wabbit Nursery School)


1. My hands are small; please don't expect me to make a bed perfectly, draw a picture without 'wobbles' or throw a ball properly. My legs are short; please remember that I can't keep up with you when you walk too fast.

2. My eyes have not seen the world as yours have; please let me explore it safely, without overprotecting me.

3. Housework will always be there. I'm only little for a short time, please take time to explain things to me about this wonderful world even if it means delaying something else you need to do.

4. My feelings are easily hurt; please be sensitive to my needs. Don't nag me all day long. (You wouldn't want to be nagged for your inquisitiveness.) Treat me as you would like to be treated.

5. I am you special gift; please treasure me. Hold me accountable for my actions, give me guidelines to live by and discipline me in a loving manner.

6. I need your encouragement to grow. Please go easy on the criticism; remember you can criticize the things I do without criticizing me.

7. Please give me the freedom to make more and more decisions for myself. Even let me fail sometimes, so that I can learn from my mistakes. Then someday I'll be prepared to make the kinds of decisions that life requires of me.

8. Please don't re-do things that I have done. That makes me feel that my efforts didn't measure up to your expectations. I know it's hard, but please don't try to compare me to my brother or sister, or other people's children.

9. Please don't be afraid to spend a weekend away from home. Children need holidays from parents, just as parents need time out from their children.

10. Please set a good example for me to follow. Your values are the ones that will have the most influence on me for the rest of my life.

 

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